๐‘พ๐’๐’Ž๐’†๐’~๐‘ช๐’‚๐’ ๐’˜๐’† ๐’†๐’—๐’†๐’“ ๐’…๐’†๐’‡๐’Š๐’๐’† ๐’•๐’‰๐’†๐’Ž?

She laughs, but when needed!
She dresses up, but not for the crowd!
She loves, but keeps her dignity safe!
She speaks, but not to hurt others!
She cries, but has a firm personality outside!

"Can you ever understand a women?" They said, " yes if you read what is beneath the beauty" I responded!

With the shallow walls of expectations, she managed to make her way to the world of her dreams again!. I have always wondered what an ideal women should be like, look like, speak like and dress like!? but never really came to a conclusion for this complicated and sensitive question since I have met a lot of women who define being a women in a completely unique manner which keeps bringing new perspectives and opinions to my life regarding women.
After having observed a bunch of women in my life, I created a version for myself which I hope I am able to adopt and live with.
I believe that women have the kindest heart and a lot of love to give to the humans around them, specially when they mean something for her or show the slightest gesture of love towards her. I have always believed that women are givers and God has given them such an ocean of emotions that is never ending and too deep to dive into!. I don't think giving makes you less equal to men, infact I feel it is the most beautiful quality a women can ever  have and which makes her the strongest of all the creatures!

The second quality that I find attractive is the decency in her personality. I feel, that how you dress up, shows the respect that you have for the occasion or people associated with the occasion and place.
I feel that a women can always differentiate between the gaze of respect and the gaze of lust and I never really understood why and how can women enjoy the gaze of lust towards her knowingly or unknowingly. I agree with the fact that we create the doors of respect for ourselves by being firm with our values and dignity. I have noticed that it's not just the piece of clothing that invites lustful attention towards you, but also how you present yourself infront of the crowd when everyone is there and also when no one is watching you. A firmness in your voice and your personality is something that sets the boundaries for them to not cross.

I hope that women realise the beauty of being treated with respect and the accept the fact that their bodies and souls are not meant to be sold for the scavengers out there!





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